My Wish for You

Friday, June 10, 2011

My baby girl.
I pray that when you are older, your friends are true to you.
I hope that all goes well for you.
I hope that you do not trust as easily as mommy.
If you trust, then be careful with who you place your trust to.
Trust is very easily lost, and once that trust is gone, it is hard to get back.
I hope that you do not get mistreated.

However, no matter what may happen, there are times when you will encounter those who will be cruel to you.
No matter what, just know that I love you.
Do not let anyone bring you down.
And if by chance that may occur, just know that you deserve better.
Don't open your heart too easily.
BUT, in the words of your aunt Brenda, don't be closed off to all the possibilities.

As you grow older, you will realize that there are some sayings that will make you ponder as the time flies by.
And you will learn something new EVERYDAY.
Even to this day, that is true.
I learned something new recently.
People are not who you think they are. I've actually noticed that more than I want to, but it's just finally kicking in. 
So I hope and pray that as you grow, your generation definition of friendship upholds it better cause it seems as though some of Mommy's so-called friends, aren't friends after all.
And it's one of those life lessons that you learn and move on.  Why?
Because life goes on.
Friends come and go.  And if you consider them your friend and they truly aren't, then oh well.
Let it be. 

I can see now that you will have no problems with obtaining friends.
Somewhere I think that's the case for everyone...but its a matter of keeping them that shows a true friendship.

I am sure that I am not the only one that will tell you this and even though I do teach these "life lessons" to you, it is one of those things that I know I cannot always protect you from.

So when this "life lesson" comes around, be strong.
Let by gones be by gones, and know when to walk away.
If you consider them your friend, and they hurt you, you will know then you were never friends to begin with.
And if that shows to be the case, then if they are capable of doing it to you, then they are capable of doing it others.
Funny how life works.
One minutes you can be happy and the next you can be sad.

So, my wish for you is to live happily.
Whether you do it by yourself or with your friends, never let anyone bring you down to the point that you cannot find your happiness. 
Thanks to you, I have always been able to find mine.
And for that I am forever grateful.

Hugs and kisses likes always,
Mommy